对的。如果没带，我自己会觉得不好意思，邀请者也会私下说我不懂人情。

Yes. If I do not take one, I will feel embarrassed and the inviter would privately say that I have no idea about gratitude.

对的。如果没带，我自己会觉得不好意思，邀请者也会私下说我不懂人情。

Yes. If I do not take one, I will feel embarrassed and the inviter would privately say that I have no idea about gratitude .

其他的邀请函里会有邀请者的电话号码以供您电话回复——虽然严格意义上讲来，书面邀请需要作出书面答复。

Other written invitations will carry the host's telephone number so you can call with your reply, although under strict etiquette rules, a written invitation requires a written reply.

个人化的商务邀请能让被邀请者感到被重视和提前定好积极的语调。

Personalizing business invitations makes the invites feel valued and sets a positive tone in advance.

谢谢您。谁是您的担保人，或邀请者？

Thank you. Who is your sponsor or host ?

几乎没有人希望表现出不善社交（见上文中有关严肃型一节），而且拒绝工作后轻松一下的邀请可能会使邀请者感到自己失礼。

Very few people wish to appear unsociable (see Stern, above) and turning down after-hours frolicking may convince the profferer that they've committed a faux pas.