As my mentee James found out, sometimes honesty isn't always the best policy.

正如我的学员詹姆斯指出的，有时候诚实并非总是最好的策略。

As a mentee, it's best to establish a process and always have a mentoring date on the calendar, Zachary advises.

扎克利建议，作为学员，最好确立一个流程，安排时间定期接受导师的指导。

"We hear in our research and interviews that the mentor gets more out of it than the mentee," Zachary says.

扎克利称：“我们在调查和采访中发现，导师学到的东西比学员还多。”

To make the most of the partnership, Sherman says, "we reviewed my responsibilities as a mentee, and my expectations and goals."

谢尔曼称，为了充分发挥这份师徒关系的作用，“我们讨论了我作为学员的责任，以及我的预期和目标。”

The primary purpose of an internal mentoring scheme was to meet and match the needs of the mentee and of the organisation.

内部指导计划的主要目的是，以满足和匹配的指导者和组织的需要。

He talked about his mentee and his new, soon to be published book, and encouraged us all to find someone to be our own GTY person.

他说了他的聆听者、他即将出版的新书，并且鼓励我们寻找我们自己的聆听教导者。

"We hear in our research and interviews that the mentor gets more out of it than the mentee," Zachary says. Mentoring "gives them perspective."

扎克利称：“我们在调查和采访中发现，导师学到的东西比学员还多。”

As a recent mentee discovered, the salary question can be a difficult topic to discuss if you haven't already thought through potential responses.

正如近期一位学员所发现的，如果没有对对方可能的反应进行过充分思考的话，有关薪资的问题是一个很难讨论的话题。

After the White House, the four of us went to dinner. Before our food arrived, our high energy first-grade mentee wore out, leaned on his coat, and fell asleep.

从白宫出来后我们四个去吃晚餐。

There is a special kind of relationship—called sponsorship—in which the mentor goes beyond giving feedback and advice and uses his or her influence with senior executives to advocate for the mentee.

这里存在一种特殊的关系——协助关系，这和一般的培训不同，“导师们”提供一些指导和反馈意见给大家，同时利用自身的高管影响力来极力推荐参与者。