与一个自恋狂交往,有时候真没意思.

Egomania can be such a bore.

比如，你可能听说过宠溺孩子可能会让他们成为自恋狂。

Like, you might have heard that spoiling kids will turn them into narcissists.

这正是自恋狂和受虐狂正变得无法区分的众多原因之一。

This is one of the many points at which narcissism becomes indistinguishable from masochism.

我本来以为三年前,我们已经摆脱那个阴晴不定的病态自恋狂了.

I thought we got rid of that pathologically ambivalent persist three years ago.

心理学家玛丽·特朗普声称，她的叔叔是个自恋狂，他花钱请人帮他参加大学SAT考试。

Mary Trump, a psychologist, alleged that her uncle is a narcissist, and that he paid someone to take his college SAT test for him.

爱穿暗色衣服=神经质。穿正装=认真谨慎。凌乱新潮的衣着=对新鲜事物非常开放。暴露而昂贵的衣服=女人中的自恋狂。

Dark clothes = neurotic. Formal dress = conscientious. Messy and unconventional clothing = open to new things. Cleavage and expensive clothes = narcissism in women.

善于观察他们资料中的细节，追踪询问一些关于他们提到过的内容的问题。这可以表明你真诚地对他们感兴趣，而不是自恋狂。

Be observant about the details in their profile, and ask follow-up questions to things they mention in messages to you. It shows you're sincerely interested--and not self-obsessed.