At the risk of sounding self-pitying, I'd say it has been harder on me than it has on Joanne.

尽管听着像是自怜，我还是要说这对我比对乔安妮更难承受。

I sat there and wondered how he managed to see a self-pitying woman beneath an old willow tree.

我坐在那里，不知道他是如何看到在老柳树下有一个自艾自怨的女人的。

Having been constructed in a self-pitying rage, there are gaps between the logs, untrue angles, a doorframe angrily nailed to the outside.

因为是在过度自怜的心境下建造的，所以原木之间有缝隙，角度也不合标准，门框被生气地钉在外面。

Narcissists may deny their mistakes or flagellate themselves into a froth of self-pitying hatred, but they never laugh at their imperfections.

自恋者也许会否定他们的错误或者鞭笞自己，让自己淹没在一堆令人自我怜悯的仇恨泡沫中，可是绝对不会嘲笑自己的不完善。

It can highlight the resentful and self-pitying side of our character, while sapping the will to make changes that are clearly within the country's reach.

这种观点充分显示了我们性格中仇恨和自怜的一面，当需要做出一些明显能做到的变化时，我们的行动力也大为削弱。

Too bad that an editor did not excise the self-pitying self-portrait that unconvincingly brings to an end the strange undercurrents of this unusual family memoir.

作为一个编辑，他勾勒出了自怜的自画像，而结束这本超乎寻常的家庭回忆录的奇怪潜流之时，又无法让人信服，真是太糟糕了。

Then, with due respect for the traditional rituals of the modern break-up, I email my best friend a self-pitying rant, and look up his girlfriend on Facebook.

然后，在尊重现代分手的传统仪式的情况下，我给我最好的朋友发了一封自怜式地痛骂的电子邮件，并在“脸谱”上查阅了他女朋友的资料。

Not to be too self-pitying (or self-aggrandising), but I hadn't really cared about a woman outside my family since Margie and I had hung up our phones in 1995.

虽然我不再怜悯自己，但是自从1995年与玛吉不再打电话以来，我从来没有这样关心过任何一个家庭以外的女人。

He was trying to forget in a self pitying haze that deepened day by day.

他在一天浓似一天的自哀自怜的迷雾中努力忘却痛苦。

Behind the words, at once self - pitying and vainglorious, the merits of the case were overwhelming.

在那些既是顾影自怜而又自命不凡的字眼后面，事情本身的是非曲直是无可争辩的。